Hi, I know we're not on one another's flist, but Zoni mentioned your post to me and I wanted to come and reply. I've actually known for a long time now what Kia did. It was confirmed to me by a mutual friend whom I had no reason to doubt. I never said anything as I didn't want to betray confidences.

It's an awful thing Kia did. I can only assume that she's not mentally well, and let her fear rule her actions. It makes me sad for her; she had so many people here who loved her, and she walked away from it all.

Thank you for posting this. It's hard to be the bearer of bad news, but it's good of you to put it out there. People deserve to know.

*hugs*