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posted by [personal profile] crazybutsound at 02:37am on 17/04/2009
There is a difference between strongly suspecting and knowing for sure, and accusing people of faking their own death is not something you can do lightly. So while I suspected, I've never seen any actual proof (and trust me, when we started suspecting, we looked), and this is the first I've heard of her having internet presence of any kind. It's a relief to finally know I wasn't crazy to suspect, but I honestly didn't think I could have just said "I think maybe she's not dead but I'm not sure and I can't prove it."
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posted by [identity profile] idiosyncratic.livejournal.com at 02:46am on 17/04/2009
Suspecting is quite different from knowing, and I can't blame you at all for keeping quiet when you had no proof. But at least one person on this post has admitted to knowing for sure since not long after it happened, and it seems that several people had proof and remained silent. Those were the ones my lack of warm fuzzies comment was directed towards, because I can honestly say that I, personally, find it inexcusable, regardless of why they did it.
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posted by [personal profile] crazybutsound at 02:56am on 17/04/2009
And I understand that. But I also understand not being able to say anything. It's something so enormous, so... painful that for those who were close to her when it all went down (and I wasn't one of them at the time), it must have been at least almost impossible to wrap one's head around. I know I'm still having a hard time with it and I've suspected for four years. I can't honestly say that had I found out for sure today I would have been able to post about it. I'm not saying it wasn't wrong not to tell, I'm just saying that I understand why some people might not have said anything. Just like I understand completely why you think it was wrong of them. It's such an emotional mess...
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posted by [identity profile] azewewish.livejournal.com at 03:56am on 17/04/2009
It truly is, man. You're not the one I'm annoyed with, though. I remember what Kia & Shallow did & how they acted towards people & how manipulative they were. But it never even occurred to me that Kia would stoop that low, or that there were people who knew who perpetuated the lie for years rather than say something.

I am glad she's not actually dead. But I really hope that karma bites her in the ass for all of the people she hurt, especially you.
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